CRAVE Lounge (San Diego City) Sex & Swingers Club
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Going to CRAVE is just like going to the hottest downtown club, with the added option of being an On Premise Play Party with plenty of ultra clean play rooms.
It’s the perfect place for newbies and experienced couples to explore this Lifestyle. We’ve created the ultimate, clean, upscale, low pressure and safe environment. It’s BYOB. Come let our sexy bartenders mix your favorite drink.
CRAVE is the best Lifestyle Club ever on the west coast. The only way for you to find out for yourself is to come check it out. You can get all the details by visiting our site or emailing us. Take a look at the pix. The Cleanest, Classiest and best Club anywhere. The dozens of testimonials say it all.
We now have over 6000 members and host the hottest couples from all over So Cal at our weekly Events.
****With a layout covering 2 floors, CRAVE is intimate yet spacious. Lounge and converse with friends old and new playing pool or get your party on in our modern, sleek and booming club downstairs. Then, when the mood strikes, head upstairs to our private and semi-private play rooms.****
CRAVE is a Membership Only Club. This we’ve found is the best way to go about putting on Events that consistently attract the kind of couples and single women we all like to party with.
This week’s Events are shaping up to be some seriously hot fun. Get on the guest list NOW!
LUXX Events has been hosting Mixers/Meet & Greet, Hotel Take Overs and Mansion Parties since 2010.
In 2011 we opened CRAVE Lounge!
CRAVE Lounge is a private members only On Premise Lifestyle Club. We host weekly events that cater to couples and select singles who seek an erotic environment to live out their fantasies and offers and approves different types of membership to create that environment.
Located near downtown San Diego, we are easy to get to from anywhere in San Diego County and only 60 minutes from South Orange County and the Inland Empire. The address to CRAVE is given out only to paid Event attendees.
CRAVE does not sell or serve any alcohol, it is BYOB. We provide mixers, water and soft drinks. Our bartenders work for tips.
We are open every Saturday from 9 PM til 3 am. We also host Friday Night Party’s from time to time and they are open to Couples, Single Men and Single Women. Saturday Night Party’s are open ONLY to Couples and Single Women.
We offer a buffet of hot and cold appetizers, fruits, vegetables and snacks to keep you fueled for your night of fun.
We are a non-smoking facility except outside away from the building in a designated area.
We provide lockers for your use to store personal items. Please bring your own lock.
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Rules
We created CRAVE for several reasons. Most importantly to provide a Clean, Comfortable, Safe and Upscale environment for like minded people to explore the Lifestyle.
- CRAVE is a Members Only Lounge. You must be an approved, active member to attend any CRAVE Event, with out exception.
- We use discreet and secure payment processing that will not show up on your credit card statement as anything remotely related to the Lifestyle. We do not ever accept cash payments at the door.
- No means no. Never touch anyone with out asking or being invited to do so.
- CRAVE is BYOB. We do not and will not sell or serve you any alcohol. We have sexy bartenders and provide the mixers, you can bring your drink of choice. No glass of any kind is permitted to leave the bar. We provide plastic cups for your drinks.
- CRAVE is a smoke free facility. We do provide a designated smoking area outside and away from the building. NO DRUGS of any kind are permitted at CRAVE. If you are found to posses drugs you will be asked to leave and your membership will be revoked with out refund.
- We have a strict dress code. Dress to impress! Men are not allowed to wear shorts of any kind unless for a specific theme Event. No ball caps. Stylish hats are welcomed. No “flip flops” or sandals. No tank top T-Shirts for men. No torn jeans or with holes in them. Women are welcome to wear what they like. There are no restrictions on how much skin can be shown.
- No drinks or food allowed in the play areas.
- Please clean up after yourself. We provide clean towels to take with you into play rooms. Do not leave condoms or condom wrappers behind when leaving a play area. Place used towels in designated bins.
- No watching in the play areas unless you have been invited to do so by those you are watching.
- No standing or dancing on any furniture.
- Please be discreet when using cell phones and cameras. Do Not take pictures of anyone with out their consent.
- If any problem does arise, please contact a CRAVE staff member for assistance.
- Violation or a lack of adherence to any of the rules and guidelines is cause for your membership to be suspended or revoked with out refund of membership or Event fees.
Pricing
- A 1 year Membership is only $10 for Couples, Solo Males & Solo Females.
- VIP membership is the best value at $150 for couples and $150 for Solo Males.
- VIP Membership gives you access to all Events for 1 month with no additional per Event fee.
- The Couple Event fee is $60 on Friday and $80 on Saturday, Single Lady’s are always FREE.
- On Friday nights, Single Men are $80. Single men can only attend Friday Events.
We offer discrete billing. Your credit card statement will not show a purchase related to anything associated with the Lifestyle.
You must be a member to come party with us here at CRAVE Lounge. Become a member TODAY!
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