Element FetLife Group (Austin City) Sex & Swingers Club
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The Element was established May 2011 in Austin, Texas.
Element now has two owners, Thekatzmeeeow and Bopper69.
Katz will do three to four big events at the farm by Lake Granger/WTF 101s/Photography/Fire and Bopper will be doing the Austin events/rope/classes. If you have any questions feel free to write any owner or any leader.
We believe in a well rounded kinky life. also found at elementofaustin.com
i’d like to build the world a home
And furnish it with love
Grow apple trees and honey bees
And snow-white turtle doves……………………
The Philosophy of our groups is simple, “Everyone is welcome”. We want everyone to feel comfortable in their own skin here. We hope everyone enjoys themselves while showing others the respect they wish to receive.
i’d like to teach the world to sing
In perfect harmony
i’d like to hold it in my arms
And keep it company……………………..
We appreciate good times with good karma. You may bring toys and enjoy play or simply socialize and watch. When you’re here expect to be in a party type setting with different types of play going on in different areas of the house and yards. If something offends you please move on, if you stay and watch please be respectful. Always ask before touching and always request negotiations. Asking will not result in being embarrassed. Ask. Ask. Ask!!!!!!!!!!!! There are no stupid questions only stupid answers!
i’d like to see the world for once
All standing hand in hand
And hear them echo through the hills
For peace throughout the land……………………….
You will see nudity, play, massages, Tops and bottoms and everything between. There are swingers, gangbangers, riggers, bondage, Vets, newbies and TNGers all under one roof. We all get along because we have respect. We try to make events that new people from different groups can see how the others live so to speak. Vets should expect to help guide newbies when they see a major breach of protocol but only if it is a big no no. This is a learning environment with everyone who attends being educated in our rules should be able to freely ask questions and evolve in their kink.
That’s the song i hear……
Rules:
House Rules for events: You will be expected to know this. “I didnt know” is not an option!
Any civil disputes will be settled with a watermelon seed spitting contest.
All rules are listed on Fet. READ THEM!
Just so there are no assumptions and that it is perfectly clear.
Element is run and owned by me. I make the decisions that effect Element and Element alone. Element is run in my HOME. This is the place I live therefore I must have clear rules and follow them. I have had this system in place from the beginning and it works for me, at this time. I have a list of rules posted and most folks have been very kind and followed them. When they are broken you will hear from me, as some may know. I handle things this way…..
Phase one: “Hello…” You have broken basic protocols, probably because your new and are learning and didn’t take time to read the rules. You will get an email from me explaining the issue. If it was very offensive I ask you to apologize to the offended person and we move on and forget it. Once.
Phase two: “Hey, I know you!” You have done it again? Or…. you have fucked up pretty bad but you have good intentions and you haven’t hurt anyone that didn’t ask you to so…. I think you probably need an Element party time out. Do classes and get some education then come back. Usually 3-6 months.
Phase three: “WTF? Its you again?” Or…. you are coming with a ton of baggage I just don’t have time for. Drama, gossip etc.. whatever your thing is, its not my thing so you are out of here. Gone. Later. Shown the door. Blocked. Gagged and all the other fetlife buttons I can check.
Memo:
I have the right to go straight to phase three with your ass.
If I hear reports of someone who is creating chaos, has a bad rep, or just because I feel like it, I can and will ask for a letter of reference from you. This doesn’t happen that often, but it has. If you are trying to come to Element and I ask for a letter of reference and you can not give me one then you are not coming. My house, my rules.
Each group has their own set of standards but these are mine, along with more I may or may not add later. There is no group of leaders on an investigating committee or a government of bodies to police the scene. That’s ridiculous. Each group develops a system that works for them and counts on the family of leaders for support and advice. Many years of experience is gathered when the leaders get together but never has it or never will it be a collective Judge and Jury. Each group decides for themselves. Personally if all the leaders have heard about your chaos then that’s enough for me to ask for a reference letter or even block you until your shit gets straight.
I am very straight forward and have nothing to hide. Own your shit. We are all responsible for our own words and actions. Don’t do things you have to get out of and this memo shouldn’t have any affect on you.
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