Natural State Lifestyle (Fayetteville) Sex & Swingers Club
Reviewed by: Sweet Couple
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Website: http://naturalstatelifestyle.com/
Natural State Lifestyle offers a lifestyle and swinger friendly location for adults that want to meet new friends and like-minded people in an upscale private night club type atmosphere. People come to have fun! We have a private and secluded building that offers over 7000 square feet of space with ample semi-private & private parking. We have seating and tables for well over 300 people. There is a liquor store, gas station, many hotels, and restaurants within minutes. We are located 2 minutes West of Highway 49 and 10 minutes from downtown Fayetteville.
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Natural State Lifestyle has
- A huge dance floor.
- Three dance cages to showcase your moves.
- Upper deck VIP area overlooking the main hall.
- The most advanced LED lighting system synchronized with a DMX controller.
- A music video HD projection system!
- Comfortable padded chairs & booths for your fun & comfort.
- Bar height tables area with cool LED lights and matching chairs.
- 20 foot high ceilings.
- The club is non-smoking.
- Smoking area provided at the patio outside.
- Cameras are NOT allowed in the main club.
- A photo-op area is provided in the lobby.
- Nudity is NOT allowed. Nipples and genitals must be covered at all times as per city law.
The club boasts a full range of alcoholic & non-alcoholic beverages at the bar and there is a menu of great eats.
Our DJ/VJ will be spinning all your favorite tunes and showing all the newest and hottest videos on the huge HD screen to go with the music. They always take your requests.
Ask about our VIP Birthday package!
Natural State Lifestyle Dress Code
We would like to see you dress to impress as though you were going out to an upscale venue or nightclub.
For the guys:
- DO wear a dress shirt, polo, or designer t-shirt with slacks or designer jeans, some men prefer to wear a jacket, dress shoes and hats similar to fedora’s are acceptable.
- DO NOT wear work jeans, athletic shoes, flip flops, work boots, jerseys, oversized clothing, baggy shirts, shorts or ball caps please.
For the ladies:
- DO wear anything sexy from a party dress, corset, mini skirt, heels, dressy sandals, and some women like to change into lingerie or a sexier outfit later into the night.
- DO NOT wear beach attire, sweatpants, oversized clothing, baggy shirts, athletic shoes, rubber or plastic flip flops.
Dressing in theme can also be fun!! Make sure to check the event calendar.
We do ask that all guests & members follow local laws by keeping nipples, aureola, and genitals covered.
SINGLE MEN must be dressed to impress. A dress shirt, collared shirt, slacks or designer jeans and dress shoes are required. We are very strict about this policy.
*PLEASE make sure your clothing is street worthy. You may avoid attracting outside attention by wearing a light coat, jacket or change in the restroom after you arrive.
**Note** Designer/fashion silk type or Affliction type T-shirts and NICE jeans are permitted when worn with dress shoes. Jeans that are distressed or overly worn are NOT permitted. Final determination will be made by club management. If in doubt, Contact Us.
Natural State Lifestyle Rules
Everyone must adhere to all rules. NSL is a private social club for couples and singles to socialize, meet, dance, have some drinks, and make arrangements to take it to the next level if everyone is, “on the same page”. If ANYONE is disrespectful, they will be removed from the Natural State Lifestyle.
Couples and single ladies are admitted on all nights, and single gentlemen are admitted on special nights only.
- The golden rule “NO” means “NO” DON’T PUSH THE BOUNDARIES.
- Approach couples and single ladies with respect in order to start a conversation.
- No Harassment of any kind.
- Over drinking is not acceptable – please drink moderately or you will be removed.
- Single gentlemen are not permitted to enter the club unless escorted by a couple or a single lady.
- ALWAYS treat others with respect.
- NEVER assume anything, always ask politely.
Single Gentlemen
Some of our clients expect to meet respectful single gentlemen…some don’t have that preference. Don’t take it personal if you are rejected…it’s all about preference. Plain and simple, “No” means, “No”.
Excessive Drinking
Don’t be a fool and drink more than you can handle. Excessive drinking can impair your judgment as well as put you into a very embarrassing situation. Know your limits.
Dealing with Jealousy
Jealousy strikes both men and women when they perceive a third-party threat to a valued relationship. Although common, especially among “new” couples in the lifestyle, it can be avoided. Always arrive together with your partner, stay close to your partner, and take the time to touch base often, discussing your actions or intentions. Lastly, always leave together. If any jealousy occurs, please cease all activity immediately, move yourselves to a quiet place, and discuss any issues. If the problem cannot be solved, then we suggest leaving the party to work out your differences elsewhere.
Drugs at Natural State Lifestyle are ABSOLUTELY PROHIBITED
Drugs of ANY sort will not be tolerated. This includes the carrying and using of drugs within the club premises. Anyone found with drugs on their person will be REMOVED from the club.
Info for Singles
Everyone must adhere to all rules. NSL is a private social Natural State Lifestyle for couples and singles to socialize, meet, dance, have some drinks, and make arrangements to take it to the next level if everyone is, “on the same page”. If ANYONE is disrespectful, they will be removed from the club.
Couples and single ladies are admitted on all nights, and single gentlemen are admitted on special nights only.
Single Gentlemen: Some of our clients expect to meet respectful single gentlemen…some don’t have that preference. Don’t take it personal if you are rejected…it’s all about preference. Plain and simple, “No” means, “No”.
- The golden rule “NO” means “NO” DON’T PUSH THE BOUNDARIES.
- Approach couples and single ladies with respect in order to start a conversation.
- No Harassment of any kind.
- Over drinking is not acceptable – please drink moderately or you will be removed.
- Single gentlemen are not permitted to enter the club unless escorted by a couple or a single lady.
Natural State Lifestyle FAQs
Where are you located?
3570 MLK BLVD
Fayetteville, AR 72703
Do you have age restrictions?
A: Yes, we kindly ask that all members and guests be at least 21 years old to attend ANY of our events.
What are your hours?
Natural State Lifestyle is currently open on the 2nd Saturday of each month, 9pm-2am, Any other days and times will be posted on the events page.
What are the prices?
Couples = $20 for Certified kasidie.com members who are on the attendee list by 6pm.
Couples = $30 for Non-Certified kasidie.com members who are on the attendee list by 6pm.
Couples = $40 for Non-RSVP at the door.
Single Females = $10 for Certified kasidie.com members who are on the attendee list by 6pm.
Single Females = $15 for Non-Certified kasidie.com members who are on the attendee list by 6pm.
Single Females = $20 for Non-RSVP at the door.
Select Single Males = $40 for Certified kasidie.com members who are on the attendee list by 6pm.
Select Single Males = $50 for Non-Certified kasidie.com members who are on the attendee list by 6pm.
*NOTICE: ALL SINGLE MALES MUST BE THE GUEST OF A COUPLE OR SINGLE FEMALE! NON-RSVP SINGLE MALES WILL NOT BE ADMITTED!
Single Males after 10:30PM = $75. Even if you are on the list.
Do I have to make a reservation to attend?
ALL first-time guests must RSVP to attend to become a member first. While we prefer members to also make a reservation they are not required to do so, as long as they pay the appropriate entrance fee and adhere to all the rules of that night.
How do I become a member of Natural State Lifestyle?
We are only here to have a kick ass party every month. No other agendas. Period. We encourage everyone who comes into the Natural State Lifestyle to be a member of Kasidie.com. All members that RSVP to the event on Kasidie.com get special pricing & perks at our parties.
- You must make a profile on kasidie.com. (A FREE membership will do. No credit card info is asked for on free accounts.)
- Join the Natural State Lifestyle community.
Do you sell any alcohol?
Yes! Our full-service bar boasts a large selection of drinks.
Do you allow BYOB?
No.
Sweet Couple
Sweet Couple are relationship authors and practitioners focused on inclusivity and sustainable connection. With backgrounds in relationship psychology and digital design, they blend empathy with a product-minded approach to help couples and communities cultivate intimacy, honest communication, and a shared life aesthetic. Their work—essays, podcasts, and workshops—explores consent, emotional literacy, cohabitation, and digital boundaries, showing how technology and culture can support rather than replace human bonds. Sweet Couple offers practical strategies for building joyful, respectful, and resilient relationships in the modern world.
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