Radlett Adult Parties (Radlett) Sex & Swingers Club
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Phone: 07986 288580
Website: https://radlettparties.net/
Radlett is the UK’s best established and popular swinging house party venue. Perfect for newbies and experienced swingers alike.
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Couples
Couples are welcome to attend the entirety of the party weekend. Singles will also be present on the Friday but will have left by the Saturday evening when the party becomes closed to single guys . The party is based on the fourth Saturday of every month but the exact schedule is in the ‘ dates ’ page of this site . Couples do not need to book ahead. We take pride in feeding you, and often supply a whole roast pig – or similar. Independent reviews on Fab Swingers etc. will underline that parties here are full . Some revellers change into erotic gear here – an office is dedicated as a cloakroom. The door team let people in wearing jeans, trainers or baseball hats just once if they plead lack of upbringing and promise never to do it again. Alternatively, bring a receipt to convince Janet the jeans are reassuringly expensive. When attending either or both nights of the parties, arrive from 21:30, but be warned that most arrive between 10 and 11 with activity peaking between 11pm and 4am. The contribution sought depends upon recent damage and party-dedicated acquisitions, but will remain cheaper than any comparable night out until further notice.
Single males are excluded from mid day on the Saturday and may not remain at the party from this point onwards. Neither should they embarrass themselves by attempting entry after this time. The door team have seen all the scams from ‘my partner arranged to meet me here’ to scrambling through the undergrowth to bypass security. Do not bring any male separately from his intended ‘partner’. It is embarrassing to all while he waits outside for someone who usually never comes (and was probably fictitious in the first place). Heavily bi women should couple with similar – it distorts the dynamics for both partners in a couple to be pursuing the same gender. Such a couple is the equivalent of two single males. Please do not bring a partner who plans to be a lot less active than you. If she just wants to dance you stay downstairs as well. We are too polite to berate the occasional reveller who pays a ‘ticket woman’ to gain entry, but be assured they are easy to spot.
The rooms are sometimes labelled to help people select their favourite type of interaction. Cruisers (lone males who have parked their women somewhere ‘safe’) are discouraged from at least one room so that couples-only revellers can be spared testosterone-inflamed interruption.
First timers often seek reassurance. Around 20% at each party are also first timers. If you ‘lose your nerve’, or have resolved not to interact, staying downstairs will usually feel just like being at a normal, very sociable party. Around 30% don’t interact. Preferred approach protocols vary between couples, so a safe icebreaker is to ask a couple that interests you what theirs is. As a last resort, remember that no always means no.
Singles
Several couples asked for singles to be around, so we extended the party into a two day event with singles welcome to attend on the first evening. The exact schedule is in dates. Single males should take the self-assessment then talk to Janet if the resulting score is adequate. That gives both parties a chance to ask questions to become confident the visit will suit all parties. Safest is to email your phone details and photograph for her to ring you. Janet limits the number of single males to stop the ratio becoming uncomfortable for all concerned. Single women, bi or otherwise are very welcome and coming in increasing numbers. Eight came to a recent Friday night and outnumbered the single guys!
Most revellers are comfortable with a ratio of one single guy to each single lady or couple so this is the ratio we target . On average this ratio is achieved, but humans are frail in honouring their commitments so we cannot be responsible for that ratio being met exactly every party. Some guys ask if they are assured of ‘action’. Our home is not a brothel, so males who have problems appealing to the fair sex should search the internet for ‘bukakes’ where the cost will be much higher, but paid-for women will be under pressure to accommodate them. Males who conceptualise womanhood into two groups – those who might bear their children and must be chained to monogamy in support of their keeper’s fragile ego, and (other men’s) fallen women whose main purpose is further to aggrandise their ego-centrality will be seen through by the discerning couples here and would again be better off with bukakes. Better still, they should do their partners the favour of evangelising them and bringing them to the whole weekend party rather than just visiting on the Friday.
If however, you respect and love the company of women, don’t see pleasuring them as a predatory slight on their long-term partner and perform well sexually, give Janet a call – a lot of couples want to meet you. Please take the ‘self assessment’ and ‘cultural outlook on women’ quizzes in ‘bulletins’ before applying to come.
Parties start from 21:30. The first 2 hours or so are usually devoted to socialising and winning confidence. Janet once did an analysis that showed 75% of single males did and 15% of women didn’t. How much you enjoy the evening is up to you more than anyone else.
Rules
Rules can spoil an atmosphere, but to reduce our disappointment at a minority’s behaviour, you might like to consider the following:
- Smoking has been illegal in parties like this since 2005. The penalty is a £20,000 fine and closure of the parties. We supply a gazebo by the kitchen back door for such chemical dependants. The loft dungeon is absolutely a no-smoking zone. Exit difficulty, distractions and flammability should make this obvious to all but the criminally insane. The grounds are not an ashtray. Please seek out the nearest proper one to dispose of any cigarette ends.
- Please leave gum at home or at least stick it somewhere it can be easily removed. Much of it is in our written-off carpets. Would you do that in your own home?
- We now have the technology to remove even red wine stains from carpets, so you can drink upstairs. If you must take drinks into the pool or hot tub, take extreme caution or a plastic cup. A broken glass can do horrible damage to a foot. Some common sense health and safety rules apply in the pool and are on a couple of clear signs.
- People at these parties have stronger relationships than most. It is bad etiquette to attempt to date someone behind his or her partner’s back. Do not hide used condoms.
- If your partner suffers from kleptomania please frisk them before leaving. Favourite souvenirs include expensive bottles of drink, cds (software from the computer as well as music), dvds, videos and cameras (or is it camerae?) A couple of mobile phones get separated from their owners each year. Photographing proceedings is banned, so leave mobile phones in your car for every ones’ sakes.
- Simple arithmetic will show that there are not enough rooms for small groups to barricade doors shut behind them. There are plenty of cosy dark corners in the loft. Taking the loft ladder off its hinges to prevent others ascending (yes. people have done that!) has the downside that you will be trapped aloft! Sexual safety is your own affair, so come equipped , though we have a gross of dubiously dated ones if you run out . The helping team wonder why those staying over don’t always balance value by at least leaving the room they slept in cleared away and free of debris.
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