Sex & swingers clubs in United Kingdom (UK) (2025)


UK swingers are yet to come out, but it is already a reality. If you have problems with socialization - use free swingers dating. The underground, for example, is full of mistresses and dominatrices. Q. Is this attitude really widespread, or have you seen this happen a lot more in England than in Spain? A. It's not widespread. A couple of years ago I was spending some time in Amsterdam. Here a woman asked if I could find her a male escort. It was a common thing. Of course I said no. This isn't actually more common in the UK than in Spain. Q. It doesn't seem to me to be very sexualized here. A. It is less sexualized, more sensual. There is a lot less emphasis on the surgical and removal of sexual organs. The idea that women don't enjoy sex and want to be dominated by a man, for example, is relatively new. You may see it in the United States and Europe, but the way you see it is different in Spain. You wouldn't see it here. For example, when I was in Madrid, I met a German guy who came to visit me. He started looking at me when I walked into the hotel and said: "Wow, you're really beautiful." His eyes lingered on my breasts and underarm, and I had to hide my breasts in a bit of a embarrassed way. He has since found a mistress in the United Kingdom. He told me that he found her attractive. He'd been in Madrid for a few days, had a long day of work, and when he got home he found that I had kept his mistress around. He was a little surprised. He found me attractive, but not sexually. He said he liked the fact that she was as old as he was and loved to do my laundry. But he didn't have much interaction with her, and she lived there.

The Private Club
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Birmingham
  • Welcome to The Private Club: The UKs Best Kept Secret. Open to any adults looking for an adventurous place to visit, whether you are a swinging couple, single woman or single man, you are more than welcome. So what do we offer at the club? For people looking for a safe environment to meet like minded singles and couples, we host six weekly gang-bang sex parties. Each party will be hosted by some of our beautiful hosts, who along with the other club staff aim to make your visit as enjoyable and sexy as possible. What you can expect At The Private Club, we offer a variety of events and themed nights throughout every month. Each week we host at…
The Toucan
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Southeast
  • Soft lamplight, velvet hush. A mingled scent of citrus and waxed floors drifts as I step inside The Toucan, where velvet drapes rustle with a discreet sigh of welcome. The foyer holds a quiet spine of anticipation, and a hint of lilac polish lingers on attendants’ gloves, signaling manners are not merely decorative here. The room unfolds with a balance between conversation and courtesy, a rare stage for the swinging lifestyle where novelty meets refined restraint. Tonight, the air carries a whispered compliment to tradition, and it’s a gentle nod to modern consent. A Polished Prelude: Toucan’s Atmosphere and Standards The Toucan presents a polished interior—leather seating, amber lighting, and a careful layout that guides guests from public lounges to…
The Vanilla Alternative
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Sandy
  • We are a luxurious life style choice venue, a private members club open to everyone that likes to enjoy what may considered an alternative way of life. You’ll find a warm inviting atmosphere with friendly staff on hand to make sure you have a wonderful time. While things are slightly different at the moment due to Covid-19, we still offer you a safe fun environment to come and be yourself. So from Jules and Kim, we welcome you. Jules, Queen at The Vanilla Alternative & Kim Pink Flamingo Dress Code: Dress code at the VA is very important. All guests are expected to dress smartly and appropriately. Trainers, ripped jeans and the like are not acceptable. We expect members to…
Torture Garden
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • The world’s largest monthly fetish club! For those of you seeking an experience far beyond the norm, that feel you have nowhere to go you can truly be yourself, step into our world. Your experience is what you choose to make it. You can dress as your most extravagant and extreme version of yourself;  experience world class performances, body artists and designers; dance for hours to your favourite Djs, or venture into the playrooms and dungeons for your own dark, erotic encounters. History   Alan Pelling and David Wood formed Torture Garden as a Fetish Club in Oct 1990. Alan’s background was as an alternative club promoter & DJ ¬ new to London, and David’s was a conceptual art &…
Townhouse Wirral
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Merseyside/Cheshire
  • Townhouse was established in 2005, being taken over by Vicky and Jim in 2012. We are well known for our warm welcome, spotlessly clean venue and relaxed atmosphere. We offer a no pressure environment for you to explore your sexual fantasies and broaden your horizons in the knowledge that you will be safe and respected by all. We are not just a swinging club, we are so much more! We have a massive LGBTQS membership as well as thousands of people from the Fetish/BDSM community; in total we have over 22000 members! We hold several events a week to tantilise people from all walks of life, interests and kink. Townhouse is 4 floors of fun!!! Carefully planned rooms, half of which…
UK Liasons
  • United Kingdom (UK) > West Sussex
  • Satin hush. The amber glow pools along the hallway as soft jazz threads through the door. I slip into a space where conversations glide between discretion and curiosity, and newcomers are guided with calm, practiced warmth. This English house-party vibe—where couples mingle, drinks circulate, and consent is the quiet compass—feels both aspirational and grounded, a rare blend in a scene that often veers toward spectacle. A discreet English house-party scene with careful introductions. This community operates as private, discreet evenings hosted in a traditional English setting, prioritizing thoughtful introductions and mutual respect. Entry is typically invite-only, with hosts guiding attendees through a layout that balances lounges for conversation with more intimate spaces. Expect a room that values discretion, refined conversation,…
Wicked UK
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Surrey
  • Neon hums as I push inside. The air carries a tang of leather and citrus from the bar, and the lobby floor sighs under the weight of a respectful crowd. In Surrey, Wicked UK feels like a well-worn club where serious guests come to connect, but the staff move with confident ease—ID checks smooth, wrists get their color-coded glow, and a quick, friendly nod makes you feel seen. You hear the murmur of conversations blending with the bass, and you know right away this isn’t a show; it’s a space that tries to keep real safety and real satisfaction at the center of a lively night. Inside Wicked UK: A Down-to-Earth Review Wicked UK sits quietly in Surrey’s nightlife landscape…
Xtasia
  • United Kingdom (UK) > West Bromwich
  • Established in the 1980’s, Xtasia is the UK’s longest established swingers club and has recently been voted the number 1 Swingers Club in the UK by it’s peers, and is extremely proud of the accolade. It now covers Swinging and Fetish events on a weekly basis, within two adjoining venues. Please note, you don’t have to partake in anything, just come in and enjoy with a liberated open mind. The Xtasia complex, now encompasses the Xtasia Nightclub and Flirts Bar for both swingers and fetish events. Please view the correct diary for a list of current events, opening times and costs for the events of interest. Home to superb events, such as DPraved, Cirque de Chaos, Foam Parties and FFFF.…

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