Sex & swingers clubs in United Kingdom (UK) (2025)


UK swingers are yet to come out, but it is already a reality. If you have problems with socialization - use free swingers dating. The underground, for example, is full of mistresses and dominatrices. Q. Is this attitude really widespread, or have you seen this happen a lot more in England than in Spain? A. It's not widespread. A couple of years ago I was spending some time in Amsterdam. Here a woman asked if I could find her a male escort. It was a common thing. Of course I said no. This isn't actually more common in the UK than in Spain. Q. It doesn't seem to me to be very sexualized here. A. It is less sexualized, more sensual. There is a lot less emphasis on the surgical and removal of sexual organs. The idea that women don't enjoy sex and want to be dominated by a man, for example, is relatively new. You may see it in the United States and Europe, but the way you see it is different in Spain. You wouldn't see it here. For example, when I was in Madrid, I met a German guy who came to visit me. He started looking at me when I walked into the hotel and said: "Wow, you're really beautiful." His eyes lingered on my breasts and underarm, and I had to hide my breasts in a bit of a embarrassed way. He has since found a mistress in the United Kingdom. He told me that he found her attractive. He'd been in Madrid for a few days, had a long day of work, and when he got home he found that I had kept his mistress around. He was a little surprised. He found me attractive, but not sexually. He said he liked the fact that she was as old as he was and loved to do my laundry. But he didn't have much interaction with her, and she lived there.

2000
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Newcastle upon Tyne
  • Entering 2000, the corridor sighs with warm amber light; a neon glow drapes the velvet reception like a soft firmware update. The air carries a citrus-and-polished-wood scent, while a discreet tech-house beat threads through the lounge. The lobby glows with amber neon. The check-in tablet hums to life and a courteous host guides you with privacy-first poise; the space feels designed to slip you from street casual into shared curiosity without pressure. Leather, satin, and glass line the route to modular spaces where curiosity slides into comfort, and you realize this isn’t a random club night but a crafted journey—one that respects boundaries while inviting exploration. Immersive ambiance where tech meets intimate rooms 2000 blends a boutique, high-spec vibe with…
A1caravan swingers
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Peterborough
  • Peterborough nights glow warm and inviting. The lobby hums with conversation, amber light kissing leather along the arms of chairs as familiar faces drift in from the chill. A friendly check-in, a shared laugh, and the soft clink of glasses stitch the room into a map you recognize—the kind of place where boundaries are whispered, described, and respected, so people can breathe and connect without rushing. You can almost hear the bass settle into the walls and feel the space open up, like a living room that expands whenever someone new steps in and adds their story to the room. Inside A1caravan Swingers Club: People First, Always At A1caravan swingers, the heartbeat comes from people and relationships more than spectacle.…
AbFab Parties
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • London’s quiet backstreet fades as AbFab’s lobby lights bloom — a soft amber glow that hugs the jackets of guests like a careful entrance protocol. I step inside, and the hum of conversations slides into a measured rhythm, the air tasting of jasmine and citrus from discreetly stirred drinks. The staff move with calm confidence, guiding couples through a maze of velvet corridors toward play rooms and a private lounge where boundaries are spoken in gestures as much as words. Check-in is quick and courteous. The lounge spills warm light across velvet seating, inviting whispered conversations that gradually reveal mutual boundaries, shared stories, and a trust built through small, respectful gestures. Inside AbFab’s London doors: community and connection The vibe…
Adult Party Zone
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • London nights hum softly. A guard’s nod at the door, and the lobby’s warm amber glow washes over a trained sense of welcome. I note the air carries clean linen, a hint of cedar, and the hush of conversation—soundtrack for a space that marks boundaries with calm efficiency. It feels like a sanctioned zone where consent is the command and discretion a standard-issue asset. It’s a swinger club ethos without shouting about it; staff read intent, not just tickets, and the throughput remains professional even on peak nights. Night-Shift Insight: Safety, Style, and Guests Adult Party Zone operates as a swinger club in London, with rotating venues across the city. The emphasis is on guest safety and quality service. Check-in…
Aphrodite
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Various
  • Night breathes velvet on stained-glass nights. In Aphrodite’s glow, I drift through soft chatter, watching bodies map trust with curiosity, and the city outside loosens its rain-streaked windows. The scent of vanilla and something metallic—perhaps wine—drifts from a corner, where a circle of friends shares a joke that lands like a warm kiss. I’m both observer and guard, listening for the small harmonies that bind people here. Velvet Hours: Weaving Community Across Nightly Venues Aphrodite isn’t a single building so much as a wandering pulse that lives in discreet places across the United Kingdom. The community here isn’t a single voice but a chorus—couples returning with their rituals, singles testing the waters with questions and careful smiles, friends who drift…
Arousal
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Midlands
  • Door sighs closed behind us. Amber lighting drapes the lounge, a faint citrus scent riding the air as friendly voices drift through plush seating. We arrive in Dunstable, Bedfordshire, and notice how couples move with quiet consent, how newcomers are welcomed without pressure, and how conversations unfurl at a comfortable pace. The scene feels like a well-curated community gathering—polite, attentive, and focused on shared boundaries. Inside Arousal: a Quiet Community Heartbeat Behind the Doors Arousal operates as a private upscale swing venue that centers on connection, consent, and communication. The community vibe grows through small rituals: a friendly check-in, a softly lit lounge that invites longer conversations, and hosts who guide introductions with a steady, nonpressuring hand. Events tend to…
Belle Baise
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Nottingham
  • Doors sigh open to velvet hush. Under amber chandeliers, the room seems to breathe with you—a whisper of citrus, sandalwood, and someone’s laughter curling along the curved walls as guests drift in like figures in a quietly staged painting. It’s a private theatre of touch and restraint, where modern lighting sculpts silhouettes and every surface invites a second glance. You move through polished wood and soft leather, feeling the space insist on discretion even as music threads through the air, guiding footsteps into a dancer’s measured choreography. In the Velvet Lumen: A hands-on tour of Belle Baise’s atmosphere Belle Baise stands out in the swinging lifestyle scene for its curated ambience and architectural storytelling. The club is built like a…
Cartels. Bristol
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Bristol
  • Cartels. Bristol is a luxurious swingers club located just outside of Bristol, in South West England. The club is located in a private, one million pound property, surrounded by peaceful, discreet surroundings. At Cartels, we pride ourselves on offering the most exclusive features of any swingers club, including a steam room, indoor swimming pool, and a four person Jacuzzi. We are a couples only club, although we do offer a limited number of memberships to carefully vetted singles. No matter your background or experience level, you are welcome at Cartels. Bristol. Whether you are new to the swinging lifestyle or an experienced member, you are sure to be impressed by the luxurious amenities and welcoming atmosphere at Cartels. Bristol. Our…
Chameleons
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Birmingham
  • Doors sigh. From the steam-warmed corridors to the lacquered playrooms, the night unfolds like a negotiable treaty between spectacle and restraint. The amber glow clings to skin and whispered laughter, and the jacuzzis hiss as if rehearsing a scene before the curtain rises. In Birmingham’s Chameleons, sophistication wears a heat-haze and the space invites you to test boundaries with consent, a balance sheet of risk and reward that only pays off when trust is clear. I feel a quiet tug between memory of crowded floors and the privilege that grants such access, a reminder that for all this polish there are frictions behind the velvet that not everyone can brush aside. Chameleons: Velvet Threshold in Birmingham’s Swinging Scene Chameleons sits…
Couples Zone
  • United Kingdom (UK) > West Kingdown
  • West Kingdown hums with quiet intrigue. In the softly lit foyer of Couples Zone, a velvet rope slides aside to reveal a corridor where sandalwood lingers with a low, discreet bass throb—the soundtrack of a night that promises restraint braided with curiosity. I watch a couple greet a host with a courteous nod and a quick check of IDs, then drift toward a lounge where amber light plays on glass walls and conversation feels almost ceremonial. The air is warm, the scent of citrus from a diffuser threads through the room, and the hospitality lands with a practiced ease that suspects you might be more curious than reckless. A measured portrait of space, service, and tone The floor plan favors…
Decadance
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Rochdale
  • Decadance is a brand new club just north of Manchester offering a luxurious experience for sexually liberated people. Run by very experienced members of the swinging scene, the club has been designed to offer everything modern reveller could need and want. A clean and stylish environment yet friendly and intimate. We pride ourselves on our attention to detail and strive to do everything we can make your experience welcoming, friendly and enjoyable. Set on three floors our aim is to provide a first class venue and environment where members can relax in total safety and comfort. The basement houses a locker room and vanity stations where you can change into whatever you feel awesome in. As well as the dungeon…
Destiny SX
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Rainham Essex
  • I breathe in the warm glow. Destiny SX sits in Rainham with a discreet, respectful cadence—the kind of club where lights soften at the pace of quiet conversations and the bar staff move with practiced calm. The check-in desk is friendly but unobtrusive, and the amber glow pools over velvet benches like a slow heartbeat. I’m not here to boast; I’m here to witness how safety, courtesy, and genuine care intertwine with the desire to connect. It feels less like a venue and more like a carefully lit space where boundaries are seen as strengths, not walls. From the moment the door sighs closed behind me, the licensed bar’s warm amber glow pools over curated leather benches while discreet staff…
Domina
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • I savor old ways. Tonight the doors of Domina glow with a warm amber light along a narrow street in central London, and the faint clink of ice in glasses mingles with soft jazz in the foyer. The brass bell above the entrance sighs when someone arrives, and the scent of leather and beeswax candles lingers as familiar faces drift toward the reception with courteous nods. In a city chasing newness, this swinging lifestyle club keeps a steady tempo: couples exchanging stories by a quiet corner, singles listening for the moment to contribute, and friendships blooming through patient, friendly conversation. London’s Domina: A Weekly Gathering of Connection In London, Domina operates as a weekly touchstone for couples and singles exploring…
FetishSwingers
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Cambridge
  • The founders of the FetishSwinging hosting team are a real secure genuine swinging couple, who can be found on swinging websites and Fetlife and you more than welcome to ask for our profile name in exchange for yours. We & our Swinging & Fetish hosting team enjoy hosting, meeting, introducing others who can be total New and or progressive so to enjoy this alternative lifestyle. We welcome all & continue to enjoy, introducing our soft FetishSwingers Taboo,Tie & Tease intro events. You can be just a voyeur to attend our FetishSwingers events. Our home (The Founders) is located near Cambridge, where on ocassions offer to meet & accomadate M/F Couples & females, single and or part of a couple for a private sensual experience for…
Fever
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • Amber hush. I listen. Fever’s foyer in London glows with a careful amber, turning faces into softened silhouettes as leather and velvet absorb sound. The check-in desk glows brass and quiet efficiency, and the scent of sandalwood lingers while door staff escort guests with practiced discretion. A velvet lounge sighs with conversations, and the main room vibrates with a measured rhythm, never loud enough to erase nuance. The layout reads like a map of consent—clear points of entry, private doors, and spaces that invite conversation without crowding intimacy. Entering Fever: Atmosphere, Taste, and Expectation In Fever’s orbit, the vibe is a deliberate blend of polish and invitation. The staff move with calm precision—ID checks, discreet escorts, and a language of…
Frolics UK
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Kent
  • The room hums with velvet light. Beyond the amber glow, Frolics UK’s entrance feels like stepping into a warm current where conversations drift as softly as the glossy curtains. I inhale the sandalwood and clean linen, and the staff nod as if you’re entering a story they’ve already begun to tell you, and it’s really welcoming. In the lobby, a quiet murmur threads through the air while the neon spill paints gold on the floor, guiding you toward spaces that promise shelter and spectacle. My Walkthrough of Frolics UK’s Nighttime Pulse Frolics UK spreads into a hush of velvet and chrome, a place that feels curated yet lived-in. The main floor hosts a revolving energy—dancers swap between the DJ booth…
Fusion
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Bedfordshire
  • The night air tastes of rain. Fusion sits in Bedfordshire like a warm lighthouse, amber lamps pooling over velvet and polished wood as a soft hum of conversation threads through a corridor that smells faintly of citrus oil and clean linen. Tonight I wander a little, listening to the whisper of heels on stone and the clink of ice from the bar, feeling that familiar tug of wanderlust mixed with a homesick ache for a place to call stable. The space invites curiosity without coercion, a rare balance that makes this swinger club feel less like a show and more like an invitation to hear trust speak in a room where consent is the first language. In the heart of…
Greedy girl parties
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Medway
  • The night felt intimate, almost hushful. In Medway’s softly lit corridors, conversations drift like velvet across corners where privacy matters as much as curiosity. I listen for the small gestures—an eyelid’s micro-flutter, a shared smile over the rim of a glass—while the venue breathes softly, a piano sighing behind a velvet curtain. The space reads like a living gallery, inviting quiet observation and patient, lasting connections that unfold when people feel seen and respected. Medway’s Quiet Luminance: Where Connections Happen Greedy Girl Parties in Medway craft a space where the swinging lifestyle becomes a gentle, social practice rather than a spectacle. The community feels like a curated salon: couples with years of shared rituals, curious singles, and mixed-energy groups mingle…
Hamshaws
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Haywards heath
  • Walls hum with quiet energy. From the moment I step into Hamshaws, a swinger club tucked in Haywards Heath, the polished wood floors reflect a subtle amber glow, and the staff move with trained calm, scanning for safety patterns like a routine patrol. Entering Hamshaws: A Calculated, Couples-Centric Vibe What you notice first is how space is carved into intimate nooks: a lounge with low-slung leather, a corridor of soft gold lighting leading to plush playrooms. The vibe favors couples who want to socialize, dance, and then decide how far to go, with staff patrolling the thresholds—quiet, unobtrusive, but always present. Check-in is a discreet ritual; a polite nod and a quick briefing on safety practices and consent signals. The…
Honeypot
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Southwest
  • Soft amber lights drift over polished wood. From the moment you check in, the space invites slow conversation, warm smiles, and a tempo that respects first-timers. Honeypot sits in South West England, a community-forward swingers club where couples and solo guests cross paths with care. The check-in hosts greet you with calm warmth, a quick reset about boundaries, and a nod toward the night’s possibilities. You’ll notice the layout flowing from bright lounge to intimate nooks, with a DJ spinning smooth tracks and a bar that keeps the mood relaxed rather than loud. What the Honeypot Crowd Feels Like in Southwest England The people you meet shape Honeypot: regulars who come for friendships as much as play, newcomers who test…
Infusion
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Blackpool
  • Infusion is situated in the northwest of England in a town called Blackpool. Infusion is a purpose built swingers club and opened in 2005. We have a large increasing membership from people all over the world. As we are based in a tourist resort we have continued custom and see new faces every week. We have couples, single females and single male customers of all ages, sizes, shapes and sexual preferences, giving Infusion a friendly and  diverse feel. We aim to provide one of the highest standards of any swingers club in the country for cleanliness, friendliness, and facilities.  Infusion is ideal for everybody; those that are new, Veteran swingers, those who are looking for something different, those that enjoy fetish, voyeurism or just want a relaxing…
Isis Quest Couples
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Northeast
  • A quiet corridor hums with soft music. In the lounge, conversations thread through laughter and velvet-soft lighting, revealing alliances built on trust, courtesy, and shared curiosity. The reception’s discreet smile, a whispered welcome, and the faint scent of sandalwood mark the threshold into Isis Quest Couples—a private haven in Northeast England where couples mingle with evident ease, and every gesture feels deliberate, as if etiquette itself were consent—it’s a quiet, persuasive invitation. Isis Quest Couples: A Gateway to Refined Social Swinging Isis Quest Couples sits as a private, couples-first arena in Northeast England, where discretion is as valued as courtesy. Guests arrive with a mutual vow of respectful engagement, and the social fabric grows through patient introductions, attentive hosts, and…
Jaydees
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Bedfordshire
  • Jaydees is a private members  club, we are on the Bedfordshire/Cambridgeshire borders 3 miles from the A1 St Neots and the Black Cat roundabout and run swingers nights. We have excellent facilities to run any other kind of events.  Birthday Parties etc   Getting to us; the venue is located midway between Bedford and St Neots in North Bedfordshire (precise location will be given in exchange for your email address, and details of who you are. via this sites Contact Page).  There is more than ample off-road, secure parking see below. The venue is a purpose built  structure of around 5,500sq.ft. located on a secluded and discreet property. Images can be found in the gallery. Come and meet your friends…
La Chambre
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Sheffield
  • The premier swinging club in Great Britain purpose built for the hedonistic enjoyment of liberated couples and singles. On entering the club you’ll be required to show your membership card at Reception. Staff will be happy to serve you from our selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Most drinks (including bottles) are at pub prices or less ensuring that the La Chambre Bar won’t break the bank. You can leave coats and valuables with our Reception Staff. La Chambre Club Rules: Smart/Casual Jeans, No Trainers. Dress code will be enforced. Management have the right to refuse admittance if the dress code is not adhered to. We ask that all members “Dress to Impress”. We’ll clarify that a little by saying…
Le Boudoir
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • Le Boudoir Club, London is renowned for our chic, stylish, and extremely playful venue and live events. ETIQUETTE If you feel you may be offended by expressions of sexual freedom, please do not attend one of our social events at this venue. We don’t want you to be upset by such expressions and we ask that you respect our members’ lifestyle choices without judgement too.  Why label people because of their sexual preferences? Since our first social events in 2015, Le Boudoir has become a haven for those wanting to explore their sexual liberation and you should know that you are never under any obligation to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Many guests take pleasure from dressing up or wearing something that…
Liaisons4U
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Rochdale
  • Night’s on. The neon sighs through the glass and the bass rumbles in your chest as you push into Rochdale’s Liaisons4U, where the air perfumes a mix of perfume, leather, and anticipation. The crowd has that easy confidence you only see from folks who’ve learned to read a room fast—eyes softening, a smile turning slow, drinks clinking in a chorus of approval. From the moment I stepped in, I could tell this place moves with a rhythm that respects boundaries and still lets the night surprise you. Rochdale’s Liaisons4U: The Night Comes Alive Liaisons4U sits in Rochdale with a handsome, restrained glow—not a blaring nightclub, but a space that lets conversations breathe and glances linger. The main hall is spacious…
Liberty Elite
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Lutterworth
  • Having been established since 1999 LIBERTY ELITE is considered THE UPMARKET private members club for those pursuing a liberated lifestyle on the SWINGERS and FETISH scenes. We have our own dedicated and secluded venue which we maintain to the highest standards. We operate strictly as a private members club, so visitors must provide photo ID on their first visit and complete the club form in our reception area. Your privacy and considered discretion are our top priority. Our team are always on hand to chat and answer any queries you might have and to settle new members nerves. This allows you to relax in a clean, secure, non judgemental, no pressure environment with likeminded people. On the swingers scene we…
Limelight
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • London nights breathe velvet. It’s a space where conversations slip from small talk to shared stories with a soft, coaxing tempo, and I watch the room bloom around each couple as if trust itself were being tuned. A bar glows with amber, the check-in desk offers quiet smiles, and the scent of sandalwood lingers near a mural that hints at a private gallery—an artful cue that intimacy here is curated, not hurried. I steady my breath, choosing the path that threads through lounge corners and whispered invitations, knowing that the night will unfold most gracefully where consent leads and affection stays softly in the background. The ambient strings weave through the air, and even the seating seems to promise a…
London Adult Party
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • I arrive early. The room smells faintly of citrus and warm polish, and the amber lighting drapes the velvet seating in a honey glow. My nerves flicker like a weak neon sign, but the moment the check-in banner flutters and a host greets me with a calm, steady smile, my shoulders unbunch a little. The space is designed to feel like a living room shared by friends and curious strangers, where soft conversations drift over the hum of bass and the clinking of glass. Tonight, I’m here to listen as much as I’m here to reflect—that’s how I learn the ropes in London’s swinging club scene. A warm, welcoming pulse in London’s swinging scene London’s swinging club life has a…
Lounge Parties
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • London nights carry a soft murmur of conversation through velvet doors, where the scent of citrus polish lingers near the elevators and amber lights skim the faces in the lobby. London hums with cautious curiosity. In the dim lounge I observe couples tracing unspoken signals—glances that map a network of boundaries and mutual intention—while the music threads a quiet rhythm that makes social chemistry feel almost algorithmic. A sociological stroll through a distinctive social ecosystem in London Lounge Parties frames itself as a facilitator of social connection within the swinging lifestyle, prioritizing couples and discreet, consent-driven interaction. The emphasis is on building a shared social fabric—friendships, trusted introductions, and a rhythm of events that make relationships feel like their own…
Nothern Parties
  • United Kingdom (UK) > NORTH UK
  • Quiet, velvet walls welcomed me. The air carried a faint whiff of sandalwood and wax, and a discreet lobby hummed with polite laughter as a host offered a courteous nod and a whispered map of lounge spaces; the rhythm of soft steps on polished wood set a tone of refined invitation. The North of England’s Northern Parties unfolds like a well-kept salon—a place where conversation is the first gesture, and trust is threaded through every exchange. The rooms whisper of discreet trust, and the whispered exchanges among guests feel as carefully choreographed as a waltz at a charity ball. In the North of England, social grace thrives within the swinging lifestyle circles Northern Parties presents itself as a refined community…
Our Place 4 Fun
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • Late evening, doors sigh open. A hush slides through the lobby as amber light drapes over mahogany and velvet—an atmosphere that feels more like a private club than a neon-lit venue. The air carries a whisper of sandalwood and citrus from the bar, and a soft, curated playlist threads between conversations without shouting. You sense this is a space built to slow time so two people can listen to each other for a moment before the rest of the night unfolds. Inside London’s discreet swing club rhythm The space is carved into a few sober zones: a lounge with low couches that invite conversation, a dance floor where the music sits just under conversation level, and a cluster of private…
Paradise in Blackpool
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Blackpool
  • Out on the Blackpool shore, the wind bites and then Paradise in Blackpool slides you into a different rhythm the moment you cross the threshold. Amber lights wash the corridor, a polished bar glints like a craftsman’s tools, and the welcome is straightforward—no neon hype, just a firm handshake and a genuine smile. The crowd carries a mix of nerves and curiosity—couples laughing, singles scanning the room—no one shouting for attention, just a steady hum of conversation. I’ve walked a lot of spots that promise spice and drop the ball; here the vibe sits steady, the staff moves with calm competence, and you’re given space to choose your pace. Vibe hits you quick. From the moment you step through the…
PARTNERS
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Bury
  • Welcome to the sexual utopia of Partners Swingers club Bury, the North West premier adult entertainment club. Partners are proud to announce that in 2018 and for the third year running we were voted the North West ‘number 1’ swingers club in the North West. Inside Partners you will find an oasis of relaxation and fun conveniently located in a quiet suburb of    Bury, Gtr Manchester, and approx just 1 mile from the town centre. Our aim is to create a warm, friendly and relaxed atmosphere in which you are able to fulfil all your hidden desires and fantasies in a secure and safe environment. We offer facilities that are virtually unmatched by any other club, with an assortment of spaces…
PINK OYSTER
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • Welcome to PINK OYSTER PARTIES – EXQUISITE, CLASSY, DAZZLING & SEXUALLY CHARGED PARTIES FOR LIBERATED LIKEMINDED PEOPLE. We aim to bring swinging to a different level, something more stylish and upmarket creating an environment that accepts individualism, diversity and free self expression. Every month we host friendly, sociable and sexy swinging parties for attractive single ladies, couples and a select few single gents. The venue of our parties will remain in and around the London area for now. Whether a new swinger or experienced you’ll fit in just fine, you will not be disappointed with our parties as we create a comfortable no pressure environment which perfectly caters for the needs of most. We welcome attractive individuals from all ages and ethnicities. Our only criteria…
Pleasures in Kent
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Maidstone
  • Maggie and Steve created Pleasures, a beautiful house, set in private grounds and surrounded by fields and woodlands, for open-minded adults to explore their fantasies. They are open every Friday and Saturday night and host a number of theme nights throughout the year. Take a look at our events section for full details. With 14 play areas, indoor pool, private parking, bar area, covered smoking area and a new Glamping Area, Pleasures provides the perfect venue to unwind and have fun. Please take a look at our site and if you have any questions, please get in touch and we will be happy to help. We hope to see you soon… Etiquette & Rules At Pleasures we want you to…
Private
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Birmingham
  • First impressions matter. In Birmingham’s Aston, Private keeps a discreet corner of the night alive with amber glow, velvet, and the quiet courtesy that footsteps over a softly carpeted floor imply. The air carries a subtle mingling of rose water and citrus, the kind that makes introductions feel like a well-rehearsed dance. A welcome from the door staff suggests that here, conversation precedes invitation, and that consent is the first guest welcomed to every room. Chapter in Aston: The Heartbeat of Private Within Private, the community is the most tangible ornament. Couples and singles mingle with an ease born of mutual respect, anecdotes shared over a candlelit corner, and a rhythm that shifts from quiet conversation to more spirited laughter…
Purple Mamba
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Nottingham
  • Welcome to Purple Mamba Club There is a first time for everyone… We’ve been doing this for a while now, and we’re keen to show off our world-famous location. When you visit for the first time, you’ll be greeted by staff and signed up as a member. You’ll then be taken on a tour of the club, after that it’s up to you to discover what delicious and naughty new experiences you can explore! Take time to meet new people and regular faces at your very own members bar. We have a fully stocked licensed bar for members to indulge in a glass of their favourite tipple, alongside a range of non-alcoholic drinks and coffees. We have a range of private rooms which are…
Pussycats Pleasurerooms
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Liverpool
  • Doors sigh shut; the club breathes. The neon glow pools on the tiled floor as a low thump from the speakers threads through the air, and a friendly host tallies your name with the calm efficiency of a logistics check-in—it’s a smooth start. In Liverpool, Pussycats Pleasurerooms greets you with practical warmth: a spacious dance floor, velvet lounges, and discreet zones that promise conversation, glances, and the possibility of more—without pressure. Navigating Liverpool’s Pussycats Pleasurerooms: atmosphere, rhythm, and layout As a swinger club in Liverpool, the venue is laid out with clear zones to manage flow: a central, well-illuminated dance floor, surrounded by lounge clusters and private alcoves. The design uses warm amber lighting, soft textures, and a soundfield that…
R.U.B
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • London’s R.U.B opens a door to a tight-knit circle where candlelight flickers over leather and lace. The space holds a patient hum—the kind you feel in your chest before a curtain rises—while the bar glints and a DJ threads a slow beat through whispered conversations. The door sighs softly. It’s the first cue that tonight will unfold with measured consent, clear boundaries, and the warmth of a community that already feels like friends. You’ll notice small rituals that map the night: check-ins at the cloakroom, wristbands chosen for personal comfort, and a shared sense that every hello is a doorway to trust. Inside London’s R.U.B: Cultivating community through consent R.U.B operates as a monthly fetish club in London, where the…
Radlett Adult Parties
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Radlett
  • Radlett is the UK’s best established and popular swinging house party venue. Perfect for newbies and experienced swingers alike. Couples Couples are welcome to attend the entirety of the party weekend. Singles will also be present on the Friday but will have left by the Saturday evening when the party becomes closed to single guys . The party is based on the fourth Saturday of every month but the exact schedule is in the ‘ dates ’ page of this site . Couples do not need to book ahead. We take pride in feeding you, and often supply a whole roast pig – or similar. Independent reviews on Fab Swingers etc. will underline that parties here are full . Some…
Raquels
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • Rain drums on the street. Inside Raquels, the air tastes of warm steam and possibilities, while the city outside forgets its own gravity for a while. The neon hum skims my skin as I step into a space where courtesy wears a velvet mask and consent is the sparking wire that holds the room together. In London, where the nights can be sharp as wind, this club offers a soft, meticulous pace—an invitation to explore the swinging lifestyle with a quiet respect for boundaries, even when my thoughts sag with old doubts. It’s easy to feel seen here, as if the room itself breathes with the unspoken promises of trust and shared curiosity. Raquels in London: Velvet Nights and Careful…
SECRETS
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Exeter & Plymouth
  • Welcome to ‘SECRETS’, the south wests premier couples only party venue with parties now being held on the third Saturday of each calendar month. Ideally located halfway between Exeter and Plymouth we are easily accessible from all of Devon, Cornwall and Somerset.  To attend you don’t need to join a club, pay a membership or provide intimate details. Simply select the party you’d like to come to and reserve your ticket by telephone or email, payment only being required on the night. For those of you new to us, ‘SECRETS’ parties are held in our large country home.  It’s a fabulous, discreet, secluded location with ample secure parking in the house grounds. We do not allow single male’s so couples…
Selecta
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Bolton
  • Bolton’s night hums softly as Selecta glows with a measured warmth. The door sighs closed behind me and a cool breeze slips along my skin while amber bar lights pool over polished surfaces, catching the edge of a glass as a discreet chime from the doorway marks arrivals. Bright bar lights flicker. From the lounge to the dance floor, a subtle pulse threads conversations that feel both casual and charged with anticipation. The crowd—a confident mix of couples and singles—moves with ease, and the staff seem to anticipate needs before they’re voiced, a sign of a well-rehearsed night in a carefully run swinger club. From across the room, I notice how boundaries are respected and handled with calm, professional care…
Skinnydippers
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Southeast
  • Evening breathes warmth into the entrance. Amber light spills across polished wood, and the lobby hums with a restrained energy that feels almost ceremonial. I move through as an observer, listening for whispered boundaries and the unforced courtesy that frames every exchange. A Midnight Sanctuary in Southeast England Skinnydippers sits in a quiet pocket of South East England, a club that seems to breathe at a different tempo than the city’s constant pulse. The space favors soft curves and intimate alcoves over a single, blinding focal point; plush banquettes and warm fabrics create a living-room atmosphere where conversations unfold like gentle currents. The check-in desk sits unobtrusively near the door, and staff move with unhurried efficiency, guiding guests through boundaries…
The Adult Party Place
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Tonbridge High Wycombe
  • The door sighs shut. Inside, amber light pools on burgundy velvet and a soft murmur threads through the hallway. It’s a place where elegance meets ambition, and every corner feels like a whispered invitation—carefully balanced between curiosity and consent. From the moment you check in to the back rooms, the layout nudges exploration while staff calibrate boundaries with practiced clarity, making the atmosphere feel safe yet charged. Inside The Adult Party Place: Velvet Rooms and Quiet Corners This venue sits in a discreet stretch of South East England nightlife, where a visitor encounters a club that leans into atmosphere as much as access. Heavy drapes, leather couches, and brass accents frame lounges that spill into dim corridors yielding private suites.…
The Attic
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Derby
  • Hidden in Derby, it breathes softly. As I step through the discreet door, a faint beeswax tang and cedar mingle with the hush of a carpet that seems to murmur of measured conversations. It’s almost ceremonial to enter, and the air carries the promise of a well–molded evening where etiquette and curiosity walk side by side. Inside The Attic: Derby’s Elegant Secret Unfolds The Attic perches discreetly in Derby, Derbyshire, England, and unfolds as a substantial, 3,000-square-foot sanctuary for adults exploring the swinging lifestyle. Visitors note a generous footprint—roughly 43 rooms—each with its own mood, from candlelit nooks to more open social spaces, all kept tidy and softly lit to encourage comfortable conversations. The reception staff are warm and unhurried,…
The Cockatoo
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Southeast
  • Moonlight slips through velvet curtains. The Cockatoo in Southeast England welcomes with a sigh: soft chatter, a pulse of music, the clink of ice on glass. I cross the threshold and feel a familiar ache—the urge to listen, to be seen, to be part of something larger than my wandering thoughts. The air tastes of citrus, spice, and a dozen unspoken agreements. People drift between lounge and dance floor like characters in a play, each moment threaded with consent, laughter, and a shared curiosity about what comes next. The Cockatoo’s Crowd: A Community First Vibe The Cockatoo sits as a warm beacon in the Southeast England nightlife: a swinger club that prioritizes connection as much as spectacle. The layout folds…
The Couples
  • United Kingdom (UK) > London
  • On a Tuesday evening in London, amber light pools over polished wood and a hint of jasmine lingers in the air as couples arrive, exchanging practiced smiles and soft greetings. A velvet curtain sighs as you pass, and the soft clink of glasses threads through quiet conversations. We’re a couple still learning the choreography of trust, watching the room hold space for curiosity, warmth, and boundaries—an energy that feels both welcoming and thoughtful. The room breathes softly. We notice how conversations drift with a steady tempo, inviting story, listening, and mutual respect; it’s a rhythm that makes you feel seen. A Warm, Respectful Welcome for Couples in London In London, The Couples frames a community around relationship-first energy. The space…
The No3
  • United Kingdom (UK) > Lancashire
  • The No3 Club is located in Chorley Lancashire, the heart of the North West. We welcome Swingers old and new to our luxurious new swingers club which we have put together with style, comfort and fun in mind. Relax in the friendliest swingers club with sexy open and like minded people. Enjoy our luxurious surroundings and unbeatable atmosphere, meet new friends and enjoy modern swinging in a modern swingers club with people of all ages, shapes and sizes! Party Party Party – The No3 Club is famous for our regular parties….If you would like to hold a party at the No3 club then please get in touch as we are more than happy to make it a party for you to remember….whatever…

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